Wednesday, August 29, 2007

Shy guy still exist?

Was just listening to a close friend's story about her recent date - we call him "the shy guy"...It was quite funny and we ended up all laughing!


Infact this "shy guy" has been dating M (my close friend) for past few months, sent her HUGE bouquet of flower to the office during her birthday and bought her the latest Canon Digital Camera as birthday gift! She finds him quite interesting, pretty good looking, soft & gentle person, and above all, he drives a BMer! But one weird thing about him is - TOO SHY!

According to M, he will need an excuse to date her each time, ie. asking her to accompany him for wedding dinner, company function, when he has something to pass to her, when there's free movie tickets to redeem, etc...hahaha, so funny!

And during weekends, he will sms M asking "what ru doing?" Then when M replied saying "Home, doing nothing", hoping that he will ask her out. Guess what? He will just reply saying "M at home too, watching F1", and that's it! wahahaha!

We concluded that this guy is just too shy...BUT does shy guy really still exist these days? I just think this guy needs to read some Shy Guy Dating Guide or something! haha...What do u think? I thought guys nowadays are a lot more daring, out there dating or hunting for 1-nite-stand most of the time if not married, NO?

My friend M is wondering if she should just ask him straight if he likes her and if yes, let's progress....I seriously dont know what advice to give her...what do u think?

19 comments:

zewt said...

gimme that shy guy's contact and i will bring some sense to him immediately. come... i am not joking... :)

as for yellow... yeah, 'somebody' is asking us to don the yellow colour during national day... but not in support of the nation... but in support to the rulers in their effort to reform the country. you should really read the article that i linked to in my blog.

Spooooky said...

a rare breed indeed. probably jus a slow starter ... slow and steady ..hahaha

sharlydia said...

zewt - it's ok lar! I feel like introducing this close gal friend to u who's dem HOT, but too bad u'r not available...hehe!

spooooky - thx for dropping by. We really cant figure out whether he's purely shy or slow starter, but 1 thing for sure, he may lose out lor like tat...

Landed_Angel said...

Hi Sharlydia, Thanks for dropping by my blog.

In fact, I have a handful of those 'shy' friends around. Just like Spooooky said, they r slow starters.. reeaaal sloooowww......

sharlydia said...

landed_angel - that's why i said lor, these guys will lose out man! nowadays gals are getting more & more agressive...

Anonymous said...

I agree, Sharlydia. Most women I know these days are more aggressive than any man I've ever met! I can be aggressive too if I need to, but I prefer my sweet, feminine side. Some woman just downright scare me with their aggressive nature, and I know I could never be that bad!

sharlydia said...

anonymous - I guess different pple just have different character... It's just that the aggressive women are getting more & more these days...

zewt said...

i must be available only can introduce ppl to me meh? cant be friends wan meh? aiyooo.... cant believe this la .... kakaka....

have we reached an age where meeting someone means we are looking at spending the rest of our lives together?

sharlydia said...

zewt - ofcoz not lar...yes yes not available also can introduce her to you, but she's hunting for bf mar, wat if she falls in love with u & yet u'r not available? dem sad for her then kan?

zewt said...

i take that as a compliment...

sharlydia said...

zewt - IT IS A COMPLIMENT!

Alvin said...

er..i think i'm a shy guy wor. donno how to date people out. hahaha. been spending too much time on 1 girl, who ended up becoming my good frens *duh*. oh ya, and the same thing happened twice on 2 different girls (different time la of course).

there goes my youth...gone.

in office, not shy...coz i'm the youngest here. hahahaha. *cough*

sharlydia said...

well alvin, then i think u need to read the book "Shy Guy's guide to dating" lor! hahaha...

since u'r still "young", u can afford to be shy still, but try to be more aggresive lar, gals these days are impatient! haha

Alvin said...

aiya, potential target pun tak rak. how to be aggresive leh?

the prev gal, i gave her lilies every year on her bday and sometimes on occasion like her exam time, etc. :|

but i don drive bmer la. :P i got bmx only.

and i don watch f1. i'm a footie fan :P

but i do stay@home a lot =_=

yea, i think i'll read it up when i'm free.

sharlydia said...

alvin - wow! gave her lilies every year also she din feel anything?

but anyway i dont think all gals are as materialistic as u said lar - must drive BMer, watch F1 & all...Just be romantic & caring, plus : DONT be shy to say "I love u"

Alvin said...

haha, nvm la. past liao. din manage to win her heart but now, we're still good friends. be glad that i've tried. ;) no regret...jz a bit costly nia. hahaha.

sharlydia said...

alvin - u'll never know! unless she's married or u'r marriedby now lar! haha...

Dio Brando said...

Has you watched 40yr old virgin... seems like your friend may end up just like the guy in the show...

I would consider myself a little shy. Dun start talking till someone makes the first move, the I open up to the person... This gives ppl the impression that I very tao.

sharlydia said...

dio brando - haha havent watched that. from wat u said, u just dont make the first move, so u'r just being "non-proactive", which is alot better than "shy guy", haha!